Preferential Love

“We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them.” 1 John 4:16

There is but one word for love in the English language. Although varied in meaning and intent, we use this same English word when we say, “I love your shoes,” “I love pizza,” or “I love you.” Unlike the English, there are four different words for love in ancient Greek, the language that 1 John was written in. To say that God is love goes far beyond the kind of love that signifies friendship or the love between siblings or even brothers and sisters in Christ.

John chose the word agapae to describe God’s love. This Greek word means unconditional love. It is a preferential love that is chosen and acted out by one's will. It is not a love based upon merit or emotion. God’s love is a benevolent love that always seeks the good of the one who is loved.